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    This Is Not Where Its At!

    posted by Darren Mitchell March 29, 2015 0 comments

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    Last week I was working with a Leader who was not in a good place. He was getting ‘hammered’ from every direction – his team’s sales numbers were well behind target, his 1 up Manager was, in his words, ‘all over him’, his customers were complaining about lack of response from the Account Team, and he didn’t feel he was getting the support he needed in order to get back on track. And in listening to his language, he was tending to externalise a lot as well, identifying other parts of the business which were letting his team down, how he was not getting the support he thought he deserved, and how he felt very much alone. Being in this place can be a very lonely place, and it is commonly known as the drama cycle. Continue Reading

    This Is Not Where Its At! was last modified: November 7th, 2015 by Darren Mitchell
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    March 5, 2015

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    It Is Totally Up To You!!

    February 26, 2015

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    February 19, 2015

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    The True North of Leadership

    February 12, 2015

    Over the years, I have had the privilege to work with and for some extraordinary leaders. Leaders who inspire greatness in their people, who have the ability to uplift others,…

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    January 29, 2015

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